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How To Get Laid On The First Night

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Sex on the first night is rewarding, exciting and self-encouraging. It is the fastest reward a man can ever get from a woman both at a physical and psychological level. Not only that but that whole mystery about the new girl is exciting because you two barely know each other.

The truth is that very few guys are constantly successful at getting laid on the first night. Yeah, everyone can get lucky here and there, but bedding a new chick almost every time you go out is definitely not a common performance.

However, getting laid on the first night in general has little to do with luck, looking like a superstar, being rich or anything out of the ordinary. Actually, being a regular, non-threatening, non-creepy, non-player guy increases your odds significantly.

Obviously, no woman who is intimidated by your image will feel comfortable around you. And this will make it harder for you to build sexual attraction. Therefore, looking superior or too much as a challenge for her is surprisingly not beneficial for scoring on first encounter.

The essential aspect you need to work on if you want to get laid faster is to look like a decent man who is not desperate, nor only looking for sex and more importantly who seems harmless.

Of course, your attitude, body language, actions and conversational skills will speak in your name. But be careful with the details – women tend to make a big deal out of particulars.

Being cheerful and funny, smiling and laughing a lot may score you some important points.

Besides your own image, you also need to pay attention to the picture that she’s portraying. Naturally, the women who look cheerful, open-minded and quite daring are more likely to respond to your approach in a positive manner.

The way she’s dressed can also be an indication of how open or closed she is about her sexuality. Apart from the traditional clichés that a scantly dress girl has loose morals or that a true charmer knows no obstacles – the reality is that if you’re after one night stands or first night sex, you’ve got no time to lose with conservative mindset women.

In most of the cases, you can tell her type by the clothes she’s wearing and her body language.

Since we’re here, you need to know that the most significant part in building sexual tension is played by body language: yours and hers. That is the reason why flirting before approaching can crucially influence your scouting mission and hence, your final result.

Naturally, a woman who does not shrink back from maintaining eye contact or smiling back before approach and allows for or even initiates direct physical contact during your conversation is the one you want to go for.

When it comes to your body language, you need to show her that you are a sexually confident man. The way you look deep into her eyes and also your contemplative glances at her face, your genuine smile (not smirk), and, of course, the way you touch her are good ways to make her quiver.

Remember, these are only some general examples and you should always make use of your personal charm and adopt the attitude and body language signs that you believe are working best for you.

Obviously, you also have to move fast with her. Once you established minimal physical contact and created some sexual tension, you need to escalate to overtly touching her and as soon as the moment feels right shoot for the first kiss.

Beware that this is the crucial point when she will make her mind whether to go further or step back. The bad news is that you need to be a damn good kisser to impress her and to arouse her senses.

The good part is that if you’re above average, she’ll most likely grant you some other chances during the evening to prove you’re actually skilled and potent.

That being said, the manner in which you kiss her does make a difference for the end of the evening. Don’t be that guy who doesn’t get laid because he’s too shallow to advance on his kissing or physical escalation skills.

If you want frequent one night stands / first night sex, admit the importance of physical contact and perfect your methods and techniques.

In most of the situations, seducing her and building sexual attraction is not enough for getting laid that night. As dull as it may sound, you need to admit that logistics are also essential. (By logistics I’m talking about transportation, facilities or supplies that you need to take care of).

Although there are many ways you can get a girl from location A- the club to location B-your home, you need to stick by the practical and clever methods.  Remember this is first night sex, so most probably the girl does not trust you enough and is neither willing to make an obvious effort for getting sex.

A good alternative is to hook up with women close to your home simply because when your place is “right around that corner” most women will be more open to visiting you on the first night.

Still, if your neighborhood is not accommodating, you can always resort to a motel if you believe that’s worth it. Sex always comes with a price.

You can also show yourself more resourceful and invite her over to a restaurant / bar in your vicinity and then get her over to your place easier. This is also a good solution to surpass the typical barrier “I barely know you…I can’t go home with you”.

Firstly inviting her over to another public place (perhaps more intimate) will raise her trust level in you as she’ll be getting the impression that you’re already dating.

Secondly, once there – alone with you- she’ll be more vulnerable and also open to you. Women in general tend to be more reserved and moral with men when around their friends.

Overall, inviting her to a venue close to your home is a smart move that will definitely help you seal the deal and get laid on the first night.

Just make sure you play it smart.


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Worried About Finishing Too Quickly? Here’s How To Last Longer In Bed

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You finally worked up the nerve to ask out that cutie from accounting. The date is going great, sparks are flying, and she suggests heading back to your place to hang out. It doesn’t take long for the clothes to start flying, and after some quick foreplay, it’s time for the main event. Only you get too worked up and cum almost immediately. Why couldn’t you last longer in bed?!

Look, we’ve all been there at one point or another. Maybe the girl was so far out of your league that you got too excited (like Jim from American Pie). Or maybe it’s been awhile since you’ve had sex, and you just couldn’t control yourself.

Sadly, for some people this is a regular occurrence. If you fall into that category, not to worry, as we’ve got some tips that should help you last longer between the sheets, ensuring that both of you get off and go to sleep with smiles on your faces.

1. Masturbate An Hour Or Two Before Sex

If you’re planning on having sex, it couldn’t hurt to rub one out a few hours beforehand. Why? Because unlike women, when a man ejaculates, his body (ie. balls) needs some time to recover before going for a second round. So if you empty the chamber before the big event, you should be able to go a little longer the next time around.

2. Take Care Of Her Needs First

It’s a known fact that women take longer to reach climax, so if you’re typically a little quick on the draw, focus on foreplay and getting her off first. Trust me, if you go down on her (sorry DJ Khaled) and focus on giving her the big O, then no matter what happens afterwards, she’s still going to be a satisfied customer who will likely be coming back for more.

3. Slow Things Down If You Need To

If you sense that you’re about to go past the point of no return, tell your partner that you need to slow down. You can say to her, “You’re so hot. I’m not going to last long if we keep this up,” and stimulate her orally or manually until you have regained control of the situation and are ready to continue. Trust me, she’ll appreciate your candor, and the fact that you’re looking out for her enjoyment as well.

4. Use A Desensitizing Spray

If you’re still struggling on how to last longer in bed, consider trying a desensitizing spray like Promescent for lasting longer during lovemaking. The spray absorbs into the skin in a matter of minutes, optimally desensitizing the penis and allowing for better control with negligible loss of sensitivity, so you can keep the party going a bit longer.

5. Try The Squeeze Technique

As the name suggests, the squeeze technique involves physically squeezing your penis (ouch) to stop yourself from cumming too soon when you feel your orgasm coming on. Simply stop and squeeze right below the head of your penis, applying firm pressure with your thumb and forefinger for about 5-10 seconds. Done right, this will temporarily decrease sexual tension, which represses the ejaculation response.

So there you have it, five tips to help you increase your sexual performance and help you and your partner get more satisfaction in the bedroom. And if all else fails, it might be time to discuss your premature ejaculation issues with a doctor.

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Adult VR Distributors Look To Netflix For Inspiration

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Digital subscription services like Netflix and Hulu have revolutionized the way that we watch video. Adult VR distributors are hoping it will do the same for VR porn. This month, the world’s most popular VR porn website announced a new subscription service called VRPorn.com Premium. It’s being hailed as the Netflix of VR Porn and some believe it might be the final step in taking VR porn mainstream.

For $19.95 a month, VRPorn.com will give you unlimited streaming and video downloads from all the major VR porn studios. While this might be old news for the film industry, it’s brand new for the adult VR world. Up until now, VR porn fans had to manage multiple subscriptions across different sites. Now, users can make a single monthly payment and unlock hundreds of full-length videos from over 25 of the biggest studios.

Major adult VR studios like BaDoinkVR, VirtualRealPorn, and RealityLovers are all taking part in the program. This large number of studios means that the Premium library already holds over 500 full-length videos with more being added on a weekly basis. A membership grants you access to many VR porn video games as well, unlocking exclusive demos of popular games like Virt-A-Mate, SinVR, and many others.

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One of the major benefits of this new approach is that smaller, independent studios have the chance to gain more exposure. By pooling all their work together, VRPorn.com hopes to shine a light on some of the lesser known studios and encourage more producers to experiment with VR porn.

The rise of adblock and pirating software has made it difficult for many creators to make money off their work. One solution to this problem might be a transition towards more exclusive forms of media like virtual reality. Because VR video is still relatively rare, people are willing to pay a  premium for quality content. If this project from VRPorn.com is successful it could provide a roadmap for all kinds of video artists who are struggling to monetize their content.

VRPorn.com already had millions of monthly visitors as the result of its free content. With this latest addition, the site hopes to transform some of that traffic into paying customers. It will be interesting to see how this new financial model plays out in the months to come.

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A Gentleman’s Guide to Foreplay

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“Hey babe,” you greet your beloved girlfriend as you come home from the gym. “Hey,” she reciprocates. You give her a quick peck on the lips. “How was your workout?”

“Fantastic…” you say dreamily, but the only thought on your mind at the moment is to release the horniness that’s been built up from your chest workout. From behind, you wrap your arms tightly around her abs and kiss her gently on the neck. Then you take her hand and try to take her to the bedroom.

“Sweetie…not now…” she says with a sigh.

“Oh…ok,” you say, visibly disappointed.

This is the third time this week she’s “not in the mood” If this happens again, I’m going to need a strait jacket.

Do you ever feel the lust in your sex life disappearing? Do you miss those first few times when you both couldn’t wait to get your hands on one another? Or maybe you feel uncomfortable when your date is going well, but you have difficulty transitioning from a riveting conversation to a sexual spark in the bedroom?

The key to maintaining this fire is foreplay. Women love it, but us men are often times too impatient to spend much time in this department. But, as a man, if you don’t take steps to get her in the mood for sex, then you won’t be having much of it.

For women, foreplay is just as important as sex, and a true gentleman knows how to turn a woman on.

Here are a few tips:

1. Tease

Most guys try to be efficient when it comes to sex, which means less teasing and more fucking. But a woman doesn’t want that.

Foreplay starts with verbal teasing while your clothes are still on. By teasing her, you show her that you are comfortable with tension, and tension is the gateway to arousal.

This is why makeup sex is so passionate. When she’s riled up and has an excess amount of tension built up, it’s all released through orgasm. With more tension, she’ll have a stronger release.

Something you can do to really turn her on is to make her anticipate your next move, but don’t immediately fulfill her desires. This will build up tension quickly.

For example, if you’re going down on her, don’t immediately thrust your tongue inside of her. Instead, go from making out with her to kissing down her body until you reach her pelvic region. Then lick the inner part of the upper thighs and kiss around her clit. When you start going down on her, lick her once lightly, pause, then lick a bit deeper. At this point, she will be gyrating her hips towards your mouth begging for more. Then go for it.

And the same concept applies right before sex itself. Before you stick it in, make sure you “paint the fence.” Take your penis and rub it up and down across the clit and vaginal lips. This will get her wet instantly.

2) Be verbally dominant

You can call her names if she’s into that, and a lot of girls are. You can also give her commands. As you are teasing her, you can say things like, “tell me that you want me…” or “say that you want me inside of you…”

Then she’ll be the one trying to escalate things.

3) Know the erogenous zones

Obviously everyone knows the lips. But also pay attention to her neck, her nipples, her butt, her inner thighs, and her ears. You can bite her neck, play with her nipples until they’re hard, grab and spank her butt, and lick and kiss her inner thighs.

The one body part that most guys miss is her ears. When you lick a girl’s ears during foreplay or during sex, it’ll drive her crazy.

4) Be present

To really get her turned on, you have to know when to switch things up and when to keep pressing on. So be present and watch her reactions.

If you notice that she’s getting really turned on when you bite her neck and pull her hair, keep doing that. But it’s usually best to see which erogenous zones turn her on the most and focus on those.

Don’t just follow the same routine. Experiment and change things up. Maybe you have certain “moves” that you’re experienced with, but if you open yourself up to different possibilities, then you might find something that will drive her wild that you haven’t tried before. Then that could become your next “move.”

If you want to differentiate yourself from the crowd, be sure to keep these tips in mind. Remember, most guys don’t know how to build tension. Sometimes they’ll get nervous and just want to “get laid” and get it over with. Sometimes they tire of the routine and feel like it’s an obligation. Sex should never feel like an obligation.

Once you go out and start applying these principles, you’ll become the guy who’s always on her mind.

About Marcus Awakuni
Marcus was a shy, introverted nerd turned ladies man. He studied mathematics as an undergrad at BYU and planned to attend grad school, but after his father passed away shortly after graduating, he had a change of heart. He moved to Las Vegas and became a dating coach, and is now dedicated to revolutionizing the dating advice industry with his new age approach. You can find him at AGL Lifestyles, or send him an email at marcus@agllifestyles.com.

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