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Sweet Seduction – How To Give A Great Massage

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The tempting allure of a woman’s body is mesmerizing. Sumptuous curves, creases that beg your tongue to taste. As John Mayer so eloquently puts it, a woman’s body is a wonderland.

Most men want to reach home base right away, but sometimes it’s nice to take some time for caressing and tenderness and treat her to a massage without any expectations in return. She will be eternally grateful. When a man can dedicate a night to making a woman feel good without sexual connotations, it’s a real game changer for the relationship. It proves you really like her, you are interested in being with her for more then just sex.

The end result? She’ll be putty in your hands!

Giving a massage is also a nice way to explore her body and fill your mind full of lusty thoughts to be used another day. Think of her like a forbidden fruit – The more you can’t have it, the more you’ll want it. Just let the tension build up and you can have dessert another day, it will taste much better then anyway. All you will need to treat her to a night of soothing sensations is warming massage oil. The rest is up to you:

1) Set the mood

Ask woman her favorite way to relax and she will usually say a hot bubble bath is best. Draw her a warm bath. While she’s occupied, light a few candles, play soft jazz music. Turn out the lights.

2) Be generous with the oil

Slather it on! Oils absorb into the skin gradually anyway so if you overdid the application no worries, just spread it all around her back. A scented oil will fill the room with a sweet aroma and warming lotions feel hot when plenty is used.

3) Long smooth strokes using your forearm.

Lay your forearm on her back parallel to the spine. Begin at the neck and move all the way down to the hips. Proceed in the opposite direction, up and down repeatedly. Moving top to bottom helps increase circulation and covers all muscles to blanket the entire body with a soothing feeling of relaxation.

4) Short smooth circles with the heel of your hand.

Next start at the neck and slowly press small smooth circular patterns gradually moving from the neck to the base of the spine while traveling back and forth, covering every inch of her back. The change from long body strokes to small circular pressure movements is a nice contrast, and a technique professionals masseurs use to aid relaxation and obtain a better response form the muscles.

5) Focus on the arms and hands.

This will be a highly unexpected treat. Grab her biceps in your hands, wrapping your fingers around and locking them together. Pull slowly downwards all the way to her fingertips. Repeat a few times. Then grab her hands and massage the palm with your fingers. Also pay attention to the backs of her hands, but use more force on the palms.

There are a few other things she may like such as a head rub, although with oily fingers some women may not appreciate this in their hair. It’s worth asking through because a head rub is a wonderful treat as well. Focusing all on her is one of the nicest things a guy can do, she will remember this lavish treat for a very long time.

If you would like to take this a step further, there are specific pressure points that have similar effects to aphrodisiacs. Be subtle with pressure points and when used in combination with a massage, she’ll have no idea what you’re doing, she will think it;s only part of the massage but little does she know you’re planting seeds of lust in her head. Dessert will be delicious!

Written by Frances Denzel, an author aiming to bring couples closer together promoting healthy intimacy in a relationship.

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  1. Tadd2

    November 15, 2012 at 1:45 pm

    Hey good one! “What to do” seems so obvious until you pour oil on your girl’s back then you look at it running all over and think “what the hell do I do now?” normally I go right for the boobs, she gets upset and tells me I’m missing the whole point…

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Thong Battle: 05/15/18 – 05/22/18

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Welcome to the Thong Battle! Every Tuesday, you guys get to vote on which thonged beauty you prefer. The winner moves on to next week to face off against another competitor.

Last week’s Thong Battle was another blowout, with the stunning Laryssa running away with a whopping 80% of the votes. Can she keep this winning streak of hers going for another week, or will our fantASStic newcomer Faith steal the crown from her and send her packing?

Both of these Instagram smokeshows have incredible asses, but only one can move on to the next round. Cast your vote now and let us know who should move on to next week’s battle!

1 – Champion

2 – Challenger

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Worried About Finishing Too Quickly? Here’s How To Last Longer In Bed

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Passionate couple in bed

You finally worked up the nerve to ask out that cutie from accounting. The date is going great, sparks are flying, and she suggests heading back to your place to hang out. It doesn’t take long for the clothes to start flying, and after some quick foreplay, it’s time for the main event. Only you get too worked up and cum almost immediately. Why couldn’t you last longer in bed?!

Look, we’ve all been there at one point or another. Maybe the girl was so far out of your league that you got too excited (like Jim from American Pie). Or maybe it’s been awhile since you’ve had sex, and you just couldn’t control yourself.

Sadly, for some people this is a regular occurrence. If you fall into that category, not to worry, as we’ve got some tips that should help you last longer between the sheets, ensuring that both of you get off and go to sleep with smiles on your faces.

1. Masturbate An Hour Or Two Before Sex

If you’re planning on having sex, it couldn’t hurt to rub one out a few hours beforehand. Why? Because unlike women, when a man ejaculates, his body (ie. balls) needs some time to recover before going for a second round. So if you empty the chamber before the big event, you should be able to go a little longer the next time around.

2. Take Care Of Her Needs First

It’s a known fact that women take longer to reach climax, so if you’re typically a little quick on the draw, focus on foreplay and getting her off first. Trust me, if you go down on her (sorry DJ Khaled) and focus on giving her the big O, then no matter what happens afterwards, she’s still going to be a satisfied customer who will likely be coming back for more.

3. Slow Things Down If You Need To

If you sense that you’re about to go past the point of no return, tell your partner that you need to slow down. You can say to her, “You’re so hot. I’m not going to last long if we keep this up,” and stimulate her orally or manually until you have regained control of the situation and are ready to continue. Trust me, she’ll appreciate your candor, and the fact that you’re looking out for her enjoyment as well.

4. Use A Desensitizing Spray

If you’re still struggling on how to last longer in bed, consider trying a desensitizing spray like Promescent for lasting longer during lovemaking. The spray absorbs into the skin in a matter of minutes, optimally desensitizing the penis and allowing for better control with negligible loss of sensitivity, so you can keep the party going a bit longer.

5. Try The Squeeze Technique

As the name suggests, the squeeze technique involves physically squeezing your penis (ouch) to stop yourself from cumming too soon when you feel your orgasm coming on. Simply stop and squeeze right below the head of your penis, applying firm pressure with your thumb and forefinger for about 5-10 seconds. Done right, this will temporarily decrease sexual tension, which represses the ejaculation response.

So there you have it, five tips to help you increase your sexual performance and help you and your partner get more satisfaction in the bedroom. And if all else fails, it might be time to discuss your premature ejaculation issues with a doctor.

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Thong Battle: 05/08/18 – 05/15/18

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Welcome to the Thong Battle! Every Tuesday, you guys get to vote on which thonged beauty you prefer. The winner moves on to next week to face off against another competitor.

Last week’s Thong Battle was quite a blowout, with the stunning Laryssa running away with a whopping 65% of the votes. Can she keep this winning streak of hers going for another week, or will our fantASStic newcomer Hailey steal the crown from her and send her packing?

Both of these Instagram smokeshows have incredible asses, but only one can move on to the next round. Cast your vote now and let us know who should move on to next week’s battle!

1 – Champion

2 – Challenger


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