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One Night Stands Actually Take Effort

There is a heck of a lot of nonsense out there that goes around through clichés that state “it’s easy for a man to go out and have multiple one-night stands with whoever he wants. It takes a real man to truly commit to one girl.” This has to be, by far the most utterly false quote I’ve ever heard, and I’ll tell you why. First of all, it is actually difficult to “sleep around” as a guy. In order to pull it off, it takes a tremendous amount of time and effort. You must go out often, interact with dozens of women, demonstrate your humor and charisma, and then ultimately convince her that you are a stranger they can trust to bring in your home and have a one-night stand. This is assuming you’re not a celebrity of athlete where women simply flock to once they know your name. Absent the “special cases” of particular men, the truth is it takes a plenty of skill, persistence, and quite frankly, luck, when it comes to successfully having multiple one night stands with women. You may in fact be able to get to a point where you get in a “grove” having a positive streak of success – but ultimately the game being played is an uphill battle with plenty of randomness coming into play.

You could be a perfect match, but in the middle of conversation you find out that but she happens to have a boyfriend. Or that she’s travelling at the moment and her flight leaves at 6 am the next morning and she is unable to come over. Or that she’s a lesbian. Or that she wants to come over but can’t because her friends will label her as a slut, and she does not want to be judged. When you go out, the reasons are endless for her not to come over – and there are plenty times where it was outside of your control. This is similar to gambling or trading in the stock market where you can be completely focused, do everything right, try your very best – and still come up short with results. I don’t mean to be a pessimist when it comes to having one night stands, because it’s certainly possibly. Men pull it off all the time, but for the reasons discussed it’s certainly not easy. The fact that people believe it takes a “real man” to commit to a girl simply means dating a particular girl in his social circle, and settling down with her – that’s it. So although getting one night stands the traditional way is difficult on the face of it, if you go online you can accelerate your results. We can show you how.

Where to Find the Right People for Online Hookups

The best place to start would be to visit a site where people are clear about expectations. Apps like Tinder or Bumble have too many users with different intentions that it’s difficult to find your perfect match for a simple or even meet local sluts. We would be able to provide an environment where users will know about intentions ahead of time, so there would be no confusion once the chatting finally starts happening. Today’s technology makes things infinitely easier to organize and set up sex dates “under the table” with two consenting adults. Most of these flings that occur on our sites are very short term, or end up in friends with benefits relationships at the most. There is also little to no “randomness” when it comes to online dating.

Sure, sometimes there are times where she’s unavailable due to work obligations, but you will know well in advance and be able to reschedule a hookup date – instead of going home alone after having come so close to success. Welcome to the magic of the online hookup environment; girls get to meet fun guys like you with none of the baggage that comes with a heavy duty relationship – and do not have to deal with the judgement that gets placed on their friends for being “slutty.”

How to Prepare for a No Strings Sex Date

There is certainly some caution that must be taken when approaching a sex date, especially when you are both clear of what’s inevitably going to happen. Aside with being clear with intentions, something useful to keep in mind would be eliminate any semblance of a traditional, romantic date. This does not necessarily mean that you roll out of bed, don’t get dressed, travel to their place, have sex, and leave. The preparation such as grooming still apply, and you can even bring toys or other kinky materials to spice things up in the bedroom. This simply means to not go out for dinner with the person, or for drinks, or a place where you are to be seen in public holding hands as if you were a couple – there’s a reason this is called discreet dating!

It is a process of elimination that throws away all of the buildup that goes along with traditional dating, and skips to the “good” part that everyone cannot wait to get to. It essentially saves time and money and gives you the opportunity to go straight to the pleasure. A great tip to prepare would be to give your sexual partner a small window of time during which you will be available – say, during your lunch break, or late-night on a weekend, and have use that time for sex only. Tell them to bring any and all necessary materials to live out the sexual fantasy, then make sure it ends promptly. Don’t have any sleepovers, or engage in any cuddling. This does not mean that all emotions must be suppressed in these hookups, it’s only a matter of sticking to the plan that you both agreed to ahead of time. By taking these extra steps of preparation prior to the date you can have peace of mind that this is only a discreet sexual encounter with two consenting parties.