Going out and scoring women isn’t the easiest thing in the world, I know. It’s hard to find the energy, it’s hard to deal with all the shit it involves and many might actually consider it a pain. If that’s the case, how come there’s still so many of us out there that succeed on a regular basis? I think most of these guys succeed because they know how prepare themselves and keep motivated to go out and approach women. But how do they actually do it?
Here’s You (or at least, many of you):
Let’s look at many of you for example. You spend your day at work, sitting in front of the computer, not talking to anyone. If I was to give you a call on Thursday and say, meet me for beers at 7PM because there’s a lot of lovely ladies at the bar I’m at. How do you think your first few approaches would go?
Quite frankly, it’s possible that you won’t approach any women at all. Mostly because your mental state is not actually ready for social interaction. You’ve been sitting in front of the computer all day without much socializing plus, computer work drains your testosterone which means all your hours in the office have basically put your dick to sleep. You’ll probably just say you’re tired and would rather do this again on the weekend.
Believe me; I know this way too well. I’ve had hard days working in the office and not having much time for anything else. On a day like that, poosay is the last thing on my mind. But things could be different.
Here’s Somebody Else (or future you):
Picture this scenario. You wake up early and go to the gym, you set a personal best on your favorite workout routine. Either run 1 more mile or lift 2 more kg’s. Either way, you motivate yourself and start the day with a win. When lunchtime hits, you take a walk, either buy a sexy magazine or stare intensely at the women you walk past. The whole point of that is to achieve at least a 25% boner. Once you’re more motivated by the minute boner, you approach 2 women in your vicinity. You talk and smile, get no numbers but seem pleased about the results.
Go back to work. Once there, talk to the horny slutty girl in the office. You have a nice chat but what she said didn’t really matter because you stared intensely at her chest area which raised your partial boner to 50%. Once back at work, you occasionally take 2-5 minute breaks to explore your deep sexual fantasies; eventually you’ll hit a 100% boner. Once you’re done with work call your friend and give him ample details about the 2 approaches you did at lunch and also how great the slutty girl’s rack was.
If you were to hit a bar at 7PM in this particular scenario, do you think things would be different?
One of my favorite venues in my city has ladies night on Wednesday. I’ve talked about this in the past, a club where the girl-guy ratio is 70% to 30% but the point to draw here is my preparation:
- I wake up with a boner and work on keeping it stiff by thinking about the hot girls I’ve banged in the past but I NEVER masturbate.
- I make at least 1 approach during the day. It can be anyone, anywhere as long as it’s a woman that I’d bang.
- I get lunch at the mall or any other high traffic location.
- As I eat, I stare intensely at the beautiful women that are walking past.
- I try to do 1 more approach after I’m done eating.
- I go to the gym or my kickboxing class and stare intensely at the women wearing yoga pants.
By the time I hit the ladies night club, my balls are ready to explode, even if I’m hitting the club alone. In that scenario, my dick is my best friend and most valuable wingman. I often score on the first approach.
Everything you do during the day is your preparation for going out. Approach anxiety is UNEXISTENT if your balls are literally ready to explode. Never again will you have the problem of motivation because your dick will do that for you. If you manage to raise your hornyness level during the day you will become a WOMAN machine. Not because you’re naturally good at it, but because you’ll press ON based on your NEEDS.
If you hit a club unmotivated, you might as well stay at home. At best you’ll approach one woman; you’ll fail and be done with it.
If you have almost no anxiety when you make your approaches it’s clear that your preparation was a success. The approaches you make are only the final pieces of the puzzle (30%) what you did before, and how you view and feel about your life accounts for the other 70%.