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Getting Her Number Doesn’t Mean You’re Golden

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Often time after a long, somewhat successful weekend, you find yourself at the start of the week with a decent amount of phone numbers. During those weekend nights, you were pretty sure that most, if not all of those girls, will see you again. But, as experience has probably told you, that’s hardly the case.

This article will focus on the mistakes you make and what you can do to improve your chances of landing a solid number that will actually turn into a date after the weekend is over.

1. She Asked For Your Number

While you may initially think this is a good idea (and it sometimes is), if a girl asks for your number/email/facebook early on in the interaction, it often means that she’s just looking for a quick way to get rid of you. Some girls even laugh around about the amount of phone numbers they collect from weak dudes or about the amount of friends (again, dudes) they have on facebook.

Remember, if a girl asks you for your number at the end of a conversation – she wants to see you again; if she randomly asks for your number at the beginning of it – she wants to get rid of you.

2. You Didn’t/Couldn’t Separate Her From Her Friends

We all know that separating a girl from her group of friends is the only real way of actually witnessing her true personality. It’s the same with us guys; we all act differently when we’re around our friends.

As a result, if you’ve failed to separate her from the group or if she refused, chances are, you’re never going to see that girl again, even if she agreed to give you her number. Why? Well if she couldn’t leave her friends to have a 5-10 minute conversation with you, she was obviously, not that interested.

3. She Left You Standing

This should go without saying but I’m going to mention it anyway. If you were having a conversation, you got her number/facebook and then the girl says she needs to go to the bathroom but never returns, you’re not going to see her again.

If she comes back, or actively seeks you out, or even stuff like trying to find more interesting subjects to talk about …are all good signs that you might actually see this chick again.

4. You Didn’t Make Plans

This is probably the most important one so pay close attention. Whenever you ask a girl for her number you should ALWAYS make plans and SELL those plans to her. A fantastic way of doing this is talking about various things/activities during the conversation and then pitching doing those activities as you’re for her number.

Example. If she acted interested in that cool coffee shop where the pianist was playing live, you can say: “Why don’t you give me your number so we can have a coffee in that café I was telling you about.”

This example may be basic but I can’t stress how important – making plans and selling those plans to her – is. If you’re not making any plans, you’re basically not giving her any reasons to see you again.

5. You Asked Too Early

When you ask for a number, it’s incredibly important to ask at the very last possible moment. This makes it seem that the conversations should have continued but you were FORCED to ask for the number as it was the LAST possible option to continue your engagement.

If you ask 1-2 hours before closing time on that particular venue, then unless you REMAIN with her for the rest of that time, you won’t see her again. Why? Simply because she has 2 hours to forget about who you are, 2 hours to talk to 5 more guys that may make a better, more lasting impression towards the end of the night.

6. You Didn’t Have A Long Uninterrupted Conversation

Another thing I’ve noticed is that having fairly long (10min) and uninterrupted conversations will dramatically increase your chances of making a longer lasting impression.

This means that if you didn’t have this interaction, you probably won’t see her again. Because you cannot control what will interrupt your conversation, the only way to “defend” yourself against this is to actually have an even longer conversation. So, 10 minutes of talking non-stop is basically the same as let’s say 30 minutes with frequent interruptions.

Why? You can’t really spit game if she isn’t paying attention and sucking in your most awesome lines.

7. You Didn’t Make Out With Her

While this subject can be argued forever, in my personal experience I’ve noticed that if you makeout with a girl before you ask for a number, there is a slightly higher chance of seeing her again.

I know, I know… you’ve made out with loads of girls and never saw them again but think about it this way: If she gives out her number to 5 guys but only makes out with 1, who do you think is more likely to get a date?

Making out with a chick, especially if you’re a good kisser is a very good way of making sure she’ll remember you.

Personally I’m not a big fan of numbers. This is mainly because my whole reason for going out is scoring the one night stand. So if I’m just left with numbers, I consider it a massive failure on my part. But hey, there’s nothing wrong with playing the numbers game as long as you’ve made sure that you DID EVERYTHING in your power to bang that chick on that very night.

This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit http://ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.

Alex Matlock is an expert in dating and woman psychology. Apart from working on his PHD in Social Psychology and writing for Guys Gab, he also owns ThePlayerGuide.com - a place where the "dating" mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct (and fruitful) methods of meeting and seducing women.

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Thong Battle

Thong Battle: 05/22/18 – 05/29/18

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Welcome to the Thong Battle! Every Tuesday, you guys get to vote on which thonged beauty you prefer. The winner moves on to next week to face off against another competitor.

Last week’s Thong Battle was another blowout, with our reigning Champ running away with over 60% of the votes. Can she keep this winning streak going for another week and retire in the top spot, or will our fantASStic newcomer Ruby finally send her packing?

Both of these Instagram smokeshows have incredible asses, but only one can move on to the next round. Cast your vote now and let us know who should move on to next week’s battle!

1 – Champion

2 – Challenger

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Thong Battle

Thong Battle: 05/15/18 – 05/22/18

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Welcome to the Thong Battle! Every Tuesday, you guys get to vote on which thonged beauty you prefer. The winner moves on to next week to face off against another competitor.

Last week’s Thong Battle was another blowout, with the stunning Laryssa running away with a whopping 80% of the votes. Can she keep this winning streak of hers going for another week, or will our fantASStic newcomer Faith steal the crown from her and send her packing?

Both of these Instagram smokeshows have incredible asses, but only one can move on to the next round. Cast your vote now and let us know who should move on to next week’s battle!

1 – Champion

2 – Challenger

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Worried About Finishing Too Quickly? Here’s How To Last Longer In Bed

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Passionate couple in bed

You finally worked up the nerve to ask out that cutie from accounting. The date is going great, sparks are flying, and she suggests heading back to your place to hang out. It doesn’t take long for the clothes to start flying, and after some quick foreplay, it’s time for the main event. Only you get too worked up and cum almost immediately. Why couldn’t you last longer in bed?!

Look, we’ve all been there at one point or another. Maybe the girl was so far out of your league that you got too excited (like Jim from American Pie). Or maybe it’s been awhile since you’ve had sex, and you just couldn’t control yourself.

Sadly, for some people this is a regular occurrence. If you fall into that category, not to worry, as we’ve got some tips that should help you last longer between the sheets, ensuring that both of you get off and go to sleep with smiles on your faces.

1. Masturbate An Hour Or Two Before Sex

If you’re planning on having sex, it couldn’t hurt to rub one out a few hours beforehand. Why? Because unlike women, when a man ejaculates, his body (ie. balls) needs some time to recover before going for a second round. So if you empty the chamber before the big event, you should be able to go a little longer the next time around.

2. Take Care Of Her Needs First

It’s a known fact that women take longer to reach climax, so if you’re typically a little quick on the draw, focus on foreplay and getting her off first. Trust me, if you go down on her (sorry DJ Khaled) and focus on giving her the big O, then no matter what happens afterwards, she’s still going to be a satisfied customer who will likely be coming back for more.

3. Slow Things Down If You Need To

If you sense that you’re about to go past the point of no return, tell your partner that you need to slow down. You can say to her, “You’re so hot. I’m not going to last long if we keep this up,” and stimulate her orally or manually until you have regained control of the situation and are ready to continue. Trust me, she’ll appreciate your candor, and the fact that you’re looking out for her enjoyment as well.

4. Use A Desensitizing Spray

If you’re still struggling on how to last longer in bed, consider trying a desensitizing spray like Promescent for lasting longer during lovemaking. The spray absorbs into the skin in a matter of minutes, optimally desensitizing the penis and allowing for better control with negligible loss of sensitivity, so you can keep the party going a bit longer.

5. Try The Squeeze Technique

As the name suggests, the squeeze technique involves physically squeezing your penis (ouch) to stop yourself from cumming too soon when you feel your orgasm coming on. Simply stop and squeeze right below the head of your penis, applying firm pressure with your thumb and forefinger for about 5-10 seconds. Done right, this will temporarily decrease sexual tension, which represses the ejaculation response.

So there you have it, five tips to help you increase your sexual performance and help you and your partner get more satisfaction in the bedroom. And if all else fails, it might be time to discuss your premature ejaculation issues with a doctor.

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